Sourabh writes

An introvert is basically a person who speaks less or in my case doesn’t speak at all. Introvert is a person who lives in a world of his own, the one which never makes him feel uncomfortable. The world that an introvert creates doesn’t revolve around the day to day activities of the people and society, contrary to this it consists of a single person who cuts himself off from the mundane life of the society.

Society is no place for him to wander as he knows that it won’t accept him for who he is, therefore his mind eventually becomes the place where he lives, socializes and ponders. He can’t even share his feelings with anyone as he becomes too paranoid to believe or trust anyone, so what he does is he creates an imaginary self with whom he keeps talking about his feelings, about his life, about his dreams and ambitions. People look at him as if he is some kind of a freak, they even misunderstand him for mute. The family of an introvert person, they keep worrying about him as they think with such an introvertness he won’t be able to survive in this cruel world, it also arises in their mind a question is that how is he gonna’ live the rest of his life, once they are gone? So, they keep telling him to go out and socialize, they keep asking him to make interactions with people, to make friends, but he keeps defying them as this world is no place for him to socialize and to make new friends.

But the question that must come to one’s mind is that – Can someone be a born introvert?🤔 The answer is no. No one is a born introvert, no one comes into this world like this. So the question really is what happens in his life that makes him an introvert? The answer is quite simple, it’s the society that we are living in. Society at different stages off his life keep bullying him, making him feel he is a misfit in a pretentious world of theirs. They won’t accept him for who he is and would constantly want him to be like others which he can’t for it’s better to be yourself than pretending to be someone you are not.

To recapitulate everything in nutshell- being an introvert is not a flaw, you choose to be an introvert because people living in the society aren’t worthy of your presence in their life, they are not the kind of people you would want yourself to associate with. So, Being an introvert doesn’t mean you are weird but contrary to this it distinguishes you from the world of pretentious people and it makes you unique.

“Be Yourself There’s No One Better.”